tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7814812944265945135.post6157608531812868632..comments2023-06-04T02:02:43.446-07:00Comments on The Triplet Crown: Crying jagMirahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00972634164823381490noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7814812944265945135.post-63748229142431970302009-11-30T17:31:57.188-08:002009-11-30T17:31:57.188-08:00Kids come before aging parents, regardless. A fact...Kids come before aging parents, regardless. A fact your dad should have known. Maybe he didn't want you to drop everything because he was dying?The Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15157821003454766570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7814812944265945135.post-33427473679994944792009-11-30T09:01:57.956-08:002009-11-30T09:01:57.956-08:00It sucks big time to have your Thanksgiving tinged...It sucks big time to have your Thanksgiving tinged with death yet again, Mira. I can't say I know exactly what you are going through there but I can relate to the anger that comes with dyfunctional parents. Hang tight, girl. This too shall pass.M. Sindy Felinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00028012315178973247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7814812944265945135.post-89038952685169435282009-11-30T08:19:39.704-08:002009-11-30T08:19:39.704-08:00(((Mira))) I'm so sorry. I can't imagine h...(((Mira))) I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard this all is; I can understand your sadness and your anger towards the timing of your dad's death. I'm sorry you didn't have a chance to say goodbye to him. Allow yourself the clouds and the grief and the sadness and the anger. I think it is better to deal with them, even if it is tears, than to push them aside and pretend they don't exit. I think in the end it will be more healing for you and acceptance.<br /><br />hugs to you<br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.com